hesitation is a doubtful reaction to am not ready.
just because one is biologically bonded to another, that does not mean one accepts one or another or ' love' one another as how one should.
the problem with Family is, it becomes an obligation when communication does not go both way.
and when a thing becomes an obligation the 'love' is debatable for one is not fully satisfied.
so dont start a family if you know at the end you will end up justifying your every action.
Family is suppose to be beautiful but yet we who created such definition are proving ourself wrong.
what a shame.